Social Customs

  • Danes would RSVP to an invitation – even for a children’s birthday party.
  • Danes would always take a small gift of chocolates or flowers to the hostess. For formal business dinners, flowers may be sent ahead to the hostess’ address.
  • Danes would arrive on time. But if they are running late by more than 10-15 minutes, they would let the host know.
  • Danes would take off their shoes when informally visiting family and friends. Many Danes have indoor slippers for the guests, too.
  • Danes would keep their shoes on (or bring along another pair of shoes to wear) at more formal celebrations, even though the occasion may take place at person’s home. You can always ask your host if you feel uncertain.
  • Danes would keep their shoes on when attending a formal party or celebration at someone’s residence.
  • Danes would remove their shoes when informally visiting their family and friends. A good host will offer you a pair of “hjemmesko” (indoor slippers) to wear.
  • Danes would expect to receive a gift list for major birthdays, anniversaries and weddings – even for Christmas. Danes are practical people and like to receive a gift they like or could use.
  • Danes would expect to sit for hours round the table at birthday parties or at weddings. There will be songs, speeches and toasts.
  • Danes would stay at the party and thank the host before leaving.
  • Danes would say “thank you for your party” when they meet the host or other guests next time.
  • Danes would smoke their own cigarettes. Offering cigarettes to others is always appreciated.
  • Danes would respect No Smoking Areas.
  • Danes would expect to make a tour of your home when informally visiting you for the first time.